Hi, blog! It's been a couple of years!
I've found a fascinating shift over the last couple of years in my relationships. I've been tending towards more little-r relationships, and those seem to go better. I have a couple of play partners with whom I have forged strong chemistry with over the last couple of years. When I'm negotiating play with others, the non-sexual bit rarely feels like A Thing anymore - it's just a foot note.
The notion of "Oh, this is erotic but doesn't involve genitals" just doesn't seem to throw folks like it used to.
Is that reflective of a shift in who I'm spending time with, and their interests or inclinations? A shift in our larger culture as asexuality becomes more and more visible? A reflection of the fact that getting older just allows more nuance for sexuality than Tab A/Slot B?
Regardless of what's driving it, it's a welcome shift.
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